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It was just intensely loving- we were in missionary and kept eye contact the entire time. I think I realised then and there that this guy is the one. This obviously came with its perks as he had access to the boats whenever he wanted. After a night of getting drunk in his cabin, he suggested we take a ride and took me into the middle of the lake at 3am. It was silent, lit by the moonlight and so romantic. We began to have sex and must have got lost in the moment when we suddenly saw police lights coming across to the boat. The unexpected interruption just left us wanting more. My now ex boyfriend goes to university at the other end of the country. After 2 months of distance, he came to see me and we mutually agreed that it seemed right to call it quits. Inevitably, in a moment of weakness, we had sex.
The Best Sex I’ve Ever Had
As someone who has written about sex for three decades, I have heard quite a few 'best sex ever' stories — ranging from sweet and relatively tame to torrid and totally out there. In the spirit of end of the year 'best of' lists, here's a sample of what people have told me when asked to look back at a lifetime of intimacy and 'fess up the best, naughtiest moments of all. I loved my husband but was bored sexually. He is gentle and I didn't want more of the same.
When looking back on your sexual history, there's probably one or two experiences or partners that stick out among the rest in your memory. Maybe it was your first time ever, your most recent tryst, or that one-night stand you can't forget. Either way, it can be really satisfying to reminisce about an uplifting intimate experience that was particularly memorable.