If you have any questions about Mormonism doctrine or things or other angles on what she says feel free to message me. She is instructed to have children within wedlock very soon, raise these children in a Mormon home, and devote hours each week to church activities plus Sabbath observance on Sunday. It wouldn't be as often as from someone with an ordinary job and schedule, but it would happen. You need to disabuse them of this notion. All that matters to her is things are how they are because god wants them that way.
My advice is, as others have said, have no expectations, expect that you will spend the majority of holidays, birthdays, family gatherings, valentines day, anniversaries alone or with other family or friends. Because service is important in the Mormon faith, she may be interested in doing something that will help others, like helping someone clean their yard. It's not that she doesn't believe you right now, but it is a bone she will never drop. In our church, women are treated with more respect, and are considered to have a literal free ticket to heaven, simply bu because their female. It's been really helpful already. She was fine marrying in an LDS church instead of the temple, didn't want to convert me, and most importantly didn't try to change my beliefs or opinions.
You should ask yourself if you want to have input on the way your children are raised. If I were you, I would just nope out of it and move on. It's just not worth it to constantly be stressing over this and feeling dissatisfied with the way things are after we've been dating for this long. I'm dating a 2nd year surgical resident, he has three kids from a previous marriage and I have one. March 19, And congratulations, "lovableluciferian" for walking away from the precipice of an untenable relationship. Did you ask him to drop you off and he refused, or were you hoping he'd think of it himself.
He learned that I didn't pick up on ambiguity and that I took it personally when he didn't show consideration for me during the times that it was possible to. She'll be hoping that you're going to convert and if neither is happy with the other being as they are, you'll find yourself divorced shortly down the road. I so agree with all these points about surviving medicine. I never pressure him to spend time with me. I know "Meet the Mormons" isn't what I'm looking for I went through a very similar experience earlier this year and the community was extremely helpful. Unconditional love, excellent communication, and unwavering support. These were some tips to keep in mind when dating a Mormon guy or girl. Best wishes to those struggling with these big, life-altering decisions. You will join the church.